An Affirmation – All is well with the world

All is well with the world

Wishing you all a perfect day 🙂

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My day begins and ends with GRATITUDE and JOY – So Can YOURS

Affirmation of the Day

My day begins and ends with GRATITUDE and JOY – Louise L. Hay

I began my day, albeit a later start than I had planned, with my 10 minutes of meditation followed by a very enjoyable exercise session. I did my usual push-ups and sit-ups but have decided to add some flexibility and relaxation training into my regime. Therefore, I’ve decided to restart Tai Chi again after a 12 year break and have joined a local class teaching the Yang style 37 step form. This is different to my previous Tai Chi form which was the Lee style, but the underlying Taoist principles are the same. I’m extremely grateful for the opportunity to restart my practice and I’m looking forward to the next lesson on Wednesday. I can’t really define why Tai Chi is such a joy to do, on the surface it just looks like slow elegant moving but I find it so meditative and balancing.

We had a busy day planned and I was grateful for having the two weeks annual leave from work which will allow me to get quite a few jobs done around the house and the allotment, not to mention our trip to Bala and our planned weekend with friends.

The day started with working on the garden and the back yard. Weeks of Sun with no rain has left the ground extremely dry, but the bonus of the good weather is that our two bee hives are doing extremely well. Watching the bees fills my heart with joy, gratitude and appreciation for the hard work they do and the promise of a little honey later in the year fills me with anticipation. There’s nothing to beat the pleasure of tasting the sweet unadulterated raw honey from your own bee hives, but I don’t take too much as I keep bees mainly for the pleasure of watching them and knowing that we are supporting the bio-diversity in the area. Another bonus, for which I can thank the Sunny weather for, is the health of the grape-vine this year, looks like it’s going to be a bountiful year.

Later on it was time for family. Sue and I were meeting Christina with our grand-daughter Scarlett. We met for a drink at Pebbles, a local cafe on the promenade, they are well worth a visit if you’re visiting Tywyn. Here’s a link to their Trip advisor entry.

I am so grateful to be able to spend this time with my family, it fills me with joy and happiness. It’s surprising how the words “you have cancer” can somehow make everything clearer about what’s really important in life. Cancer, like many other life limiting conditions, is terrible but there is a flip side as it can be the stimulus to making you re-evaluate your life’s priorities. I think my diagnosis has sharpened my ‘metaphorical’ vision to be able to see, and appreciate, the joy that can be gained from the simple pleasures, like spending time with family. So I do at least have one thing to be grateful for from my illness. Every cloud has a silver lining, as they say LOL.

Later that day I spent 45 minutes listening to the healing cancer hypnosis video I’m currently using. I still can’t believe I manage to lie still for that length of time! I do appreciate the effort, and generosity, of people who produce material like this for free. Please visit their channel and give a thumbs up to help them out. Hypnosis: Deep Trance Cancer Healing

Well that’s a quick outline of my day and the joy and gratitude I feel. I’ll check in again soon.

Have a wonderfully joyous day filled with peace, harmony and gratitude

Planning a camping trip to Llyn Tegid in Bala, Wales

Affirmation of the Day

Nature supports the healing of my Body, Mind and Spirit

Bala lake

Llyn Tegid is a large lake in Wales located in a town called Bala in Gwynedd. It is one of my most favourite places to visit. I have a deep connection to this lake, living in Wales and having a nature based Spirituality I love the connection this place has to the ancient mythology of Wales. Llyn Tegid is renowned for being the magical birth place of Taliesin, the greatest Bard in the history of Wales and the whole World. He’s a mythological being that most people have probably not heard of outside of Wales, he was the magical child of Ceridwen via the transformative processes of the Cauldron of Inspiration. But I digress, if you are interested take a look here and/or here to get started on the discovery of Taliesin.

We are staying at a wonderful camp site run by two of the loveliest people I know, Molly and James, I heartily recommend a visit if you can make it. If you decide to go tell them that Chris (the druid) sent you. Here’s the link to their website  www.balacamping.co.uk.

This is part of my resolve to enjoy my life as much as possible and de-stress. I am not defined by a diagnosis and refuse to hand over my POWER to a disease. My body has decided to give me a message and I have listened and acted upon it. There’s no guarantees in life, so make every moment count.

Don’t Sweat the Small Stuff!

Have a fabulous and wonderful day everyone, I know I will /|\

Checking in: Setting the Scene for the Coming Day

I have a busy day ahead so this post will be short and concise, and get the day off on a positive note.

I was up at 04:45 this morning, I gave myself an extra 15 minutes so that I could enjoy my Matcha green tea whilst listening to the healing affirmations I’m currently using.

Spent 10 minutes in silent meditation, just becoming aware of my breath and the sounds I could hear. I like mindfulness as a meditation so thought that would be good for this morning. Followed by 5 minutes visualisation; being healthy and strong was obviously in there, but I also visualised completing my DIY project! I must get the new hearth and fire-place installed and finished! it looked great in my mind’s eye so just need to manifest it now.

Had a good exercise session, managed 80 push-ups and 30 squats. I’m planning of doing some stretching and loosening up exercise once I’ve finished this post.

Spent about 15 minutes reading ‘Miracle Morning’ almost completed it so will be looking for my next read. Something positive, inspiring and something that will add value to my life.

Gratitude

  • Yet another fantastic Sunrise, more peach than Red this morning
  • Bella, our whippet, was so full of energy and joy this morning that I had to delay my exercises for a few minutes as she insisted on me playing with her and throwing her rope for her. She obviously wanted to get her exercises in too!
  • I feel energised this morning and looking forward to a productive 12 hour shift at work. Caring for people who are ill or recuperating is very rewarding and satisfying. I’m grateful for my career choice as it not only gives me satisfaction and a sense of fulfillment but it also gave me the chance to move from the city to a beautiful coastal part of Wales.
  • Feeling energised, healthy and full of positivity for the day ahead

I need to get ready to leave for work so will wish you all a blessed day, have fun, enjoy your day and see the positive in all things today 🙂

The Art of Gratitude

“Cultivate the habit of being grateful for every good thing that comes to you, and to give thanks continuously. And because all things have contributed to your advancement, you should include all things in your gratitude.”

― Ralph Waldo Emerson

A Couple of Definitions of Gratitude

“a thankful appreciation for what an individual receives, whether tangible or intangible. With gratitude, people acknowledge the goodness in their lives … As a result, gratitude also helps people connect to something larger than themselves as individuals – whether to other people, nature, or a higher power” Harvard Medical School

“gratitude has a dual meaning: a worldly one and a transcendent one. In its worldly sense, gratitude is a feeling that occurs in interpersonal exchanges when one person acknowledges receiving a valuable benefit from another. Gratitude is a cognitive-affective state that is typically associated with the perception that one has received a personal benefit that was not intentionally sought after, deserved, or earned but rather because of the good intentions of another person” (Emmons & Stern, 2013).

Both of these definitions are useful when contemplating gratitude and how to focus on gratitude as a means to improve your mental well-being and develop a positive psychological state. I came across an interesting article, that can be found at the Positive Psychology Program, where they explore in detail the role of gratitude and appreciation in supporting a positive mental attitude.

As a person with an animistic belief system I find the usual definitions of gratitude very interesting but somewhat limited in scope. The Harvard Medical School definition does at least acknowledge the appreciation of something larger than themselves which includes nature and the Spiritual within life, whereas Emmons & Stern have a more limited definition which seems to keep gratitude well within the limits of human interaction. But, as an animist, I have the ability to expand the definition of ‘Person’ to include all ‘persons’ both human persons and non-human persons. Therefore it’s possible for me to feel gratitude to any number of animate and inanimate persons.

Take yesterday for instance. I spent a few hours on our beach enjoying the beautiful weather with my wife, daughter and Jax, one of my grandchildren, here’s a couple of shots showing just how lovely it was.

I later spent some time to reflect upon how much I appreciated the chance to experience this time on the beach with some of the people I love. My very soul is filled with a sense of gratitude I have for being able to live in such a beautiful part of Wales, and to be able to share this time with my family and friends. My sense of gratitude goes extremely deep. Here’s a short bullet list of what I felt gratitude for at this time:

  • I feel grateful for the love and support I have from my wife, children and friends
  • Grateful that I was able to witness the simple pleasures that my grandson experienced playing in the sand
  • Grateful to the ‘Spirit of Place – Genius Loci’ of the beach for being so welcoming to our presence.
  • Grateful to the gentle warm breeze that helped cool us down
  • Swimming alone out into the Sea I was extremely grateful for the peace and stillness that the waters provided.
  • I am grateful to the Sea and the sense of connection that I feel with every other part of this wonderful planet when I am in its embrace. The thought that the water I’m connecting to is itself connected to every other body of water on the planet, therefore, by proxy, so am I
  • Grateful to the warmth of the Sun and to my miraculous ability that my body has to convert the sunlight to vitamin D
  • I was very grateful to be alive to experience all this

I truly believe that living a life full of gratitude is the most positive way to live, just to be grateful that a stranger has smiled at you as they pass by in the street, or give you a cheery “hello” just lifts your day and it always makes me smile. So my advice, if you wish to hear it, is live a life full of gratitude. Spend a few minutes everyday looking back on your day and express your gratitude to all of the ‘Persons’ that crossed your path that day.

Joy and peace to you all /|\

My day ahead

Daily Affirmation

I am at home in my body

What does it mean to be at home in my body?

I think I’ll start with the meaning of home. Is home a place or a state of being? For me home is more than just a place that I lay my hat, it is more of a ‘feeling’ of being at home, a sense of peace, security and safety. Obviously, for me, this means that I have the opportunity to be at home no matter where I am. Although it doesn’t guarantee that I will always appreciate this! I also think that the sense of being at home, no matter where you are, is also influenced by your connection to those around you and how open you are to the beauty that resides in people, it doesn’t matter whether they are in a state of joy or suffering most people just want to feel a sense of belonging and to feel valued.

So, my task for today is to really feel at home in my body today. If you have been following my blog you are aware that I currently have a health issue, my body is throwing a bit of a spanner into the works! Therefore, can I manage to feel at home in my body when my body is clearly having a relationship issue with me. Deep down my body longs to be healthy, fit and supportive of my life goals so I need to look at my relationship with my body and try to ascertain what my body is trying to tell me. I need to open up a dialogue with myself and see what my body is trying to achieve with this current health issue. I’ll report back later today with any thoughts that arise during the day.

After Work

Well that was quite a busy shift! but I am happy that my body has cooperated with me with regard to the fast. Day two and I have hardly thought of food or had any hint of hunger. I’ve also been researching a bit more about autophagy, and based on what I can find out I think that I’ll be ok to break my fast tomorrow as I should have maximised the autophagy by then. So I’ve been kind to my body and give it a rest from having to deal with food, and in the process have given my immune system the chance to reset itself with new macrophages etc. I considered how I feel about my body and its decision to produce cancer and I’ve come to the conclusion that I hold no animosity to it, in fact I feel a little guilty that I’ve put my body into the position of producing cancer in order to get my attention! whether that’s through poor dietary habits, lack of exercise or exposing it to noxious chemicals. It wasn’t my body that chose those actions but it was my mind. So I’ve decided to be gentle with myself and my body, and moving on with a positive outlook to maximise my potential to self heal, So dealing with the stresses of my life is a major activity, increasing my levels of exercise is another, improved diet is paramount. But above all else I need to focus on being appreciative of everything in my life. At this point in time I do ‘feel at home in my body’

Gratitude

What am I grateful for today?

  • Being alive
  • Being in paid work in a job that helps to bring healing to others, thereby healing to myself
  • Supportive work colleagues
  • The support of my family (can’t be said enough!)
  • The connection I have to nature (the, almost gibbous, Moon was like a grinning mouth in the sky this morning which did bring a smile to my face)
  • The knowledge that generous people pass on via various internet sites, without a single request for payment, there’s a vast amount of information out there to help with any issue.

Wedding Anniversary 2018

Although I hate selfies I had no other choice than to try to get the most photogenic shot I could LOL, not a bad shot as far as selfies go! Happy anniversary to my wonderful wife Sue and thank you for being my wife, lover and friend for the past 35 years xxx

Wedding Anniversary

Daily Affirmation

“Joy floods my thoughts and my life”

Awoke fairly early today, the Sun was already up and flooding the garden with the promise of a beautiful day. From the comfort of my bed I could see that the bees were already busy and had started their daily activities. Yesterdays drama of the swarming of the hive was long forgotten and they looked more settled today.

My ten minutes meditation helped me to set the mood for the day, I had a go at my own meditation system based on my work with the Awen, the Druidic symbol of inspiration. It went really well and I know that I’ll be incorporate that into my Spiritual practice and will definitely be writing a blog post on my Spiritual blog At The Hearth about the philosophy behind the technique.

I came across a great quote today by Marcus Aurelius, a stoic philosopher, that I have found great comfort in:

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I think the Stoics were highly intelligent philosophers and made some great points. I’m all for positive thinking but I think applying a bit of Stoicism at times can ground you into reality. No more so than being given a diagnosis of cancer, as I was a few days ago!

Shit Happens!

Yeah, it certainly does! I’ve always been a very positive person and have looked after my health fairly well. So being given a diagnosis of cancer was a bit of a shock to say the least. But, having spent a few days contemplating the issue, I’ve decided that it’s time to call upon the philosophy of the Stoics and say “shit happens for which I have no control over, but my true power lies in my mind, that which I do have control over” so how I choose to react is up to me. I have little control over the actual cancer, but I can educate myself, and do all within my power to give me the best chance I can for long term survival. There are no guarantees that I’ll win, but I’m sure as hell going to give it my best shot!

What am I grateful for today?

  • Waking up next to my wonderful wife
  • A beautiful sunny morning
  • The sound of the birds in the yard and their musical chatter
  • Living by the coast and being in a position to walk to the beach and go swimming and snorkeling
  • Seeing the wide-eyed amazement on the face of Jax, my grand-child as he slurped on his ice-cream
  • The fantastic support of my family, all of my four kids are fantastic human-beings and I couldn’t do without any of them.
  • The joy of watching the innocence of my three grand-children and the expectation of the fourth one on the way
  • The pleasure I get from just being in nature, watching our bees in the garden as they collect their honey stores which, hopefully, they will share with us later in the year
  • Apart from the cancer I am fit and well with no chronic illness, therefore, I can get around and still do the things I love to do.
  • 35 years of a wonderful marriage, even with the ups and downs that come with it!

I think that’s about it for today, on the whole it hasn’t been a bad day, it’s so nice just to have a day dedicated to just Sue and I. Had a lovely time on the beach, not to mention the yummy Banana boat ice cream. LOL